Hi friends... Here one sad topic that am going to discuss... I will tell it in a short way.. I don't know on what basis many people are standing against Love???
Hmmmmm...... God only knows!!!!!!!!!
I would like to bring one incident in front of you people... You people just see it and comment your views here.
I don't know whether these type of incidents are happening only in our country or world wide.....
Ok friends... You people pen down your views here and share it with my new abroad blogspot friends.
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It's none of the three options you have given. I too read the incident in paper and was really shocked, how can father okay, probably the whole family kill that gal so mercilessly.
It' really sad to hear such kinda instances.
yevvalavu cinema eduthaalum inda appakal thirundhavemaatangala, its realy dissapointing yaar its a sin for certain girls no one can change......
Anyone who opposes the concept of love is a total loser and does not deserve to live.
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@Rachel : When this mindset will change?????
@Bharath : Don't use yaar... Its reserved by me....
@Marc : I accept your views dude....
@Francesco : Ya sure dude.... Keep in touch here.....
For me this kind of news item makes me horror! How can one in the name of the honor kill his own daughter? I do not understand. I try to be opened with the other cultures, but I have my limits.
umm..I'm not so sure bout wat ya peeps toked a bout here..Bu one thing's for sure..
Tat family din love its daughter as the way it supposed to..
There's a lot of kinda love..As u can see frm the Bible, lve is kinda and love is pateint..which decribes LOVE in a most daring and faithful way..tat noone has ever decribed it..
Ill stick to the love tat God Himself gives freely to all mankind..
hi.. u wen to my blog.. oh man. ur from india.. i see.. yeah i got a joke for you.. bout love.. its not really a joke but it is a reality now.
1st statement: Love Is Blind
2nd statement: Love doesn't matter young or old
3rd statement: Love happens doesn't matter what gender
it means male and male, female and female love
so what do you think??? its kinda true though... it happens a lot nowadays hahaha i gotta laugh thats all.. but if u dont get what it means.. it totally depends on how you interpret the 3rd statement..haha
from what you wrote.. i can see what kinda person r u.. hahaha so see ya
Hey, Shiva Narrthine here. Remember, you left a comment on my blog??
Well, I find your blog quite cool too. :D
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@Gwendal : What to do dude??? Here in India old people will give so much importance to Caste, Religion and so on.. As compared to human feelings and human values.. What about your country dude?
@Linkin : Ya i got the point dude... If sex is not the only meaning for Love means then i will accept your third point.... Keep in touch here....
@Shiva : Thanks for commenting in my blog... I answered your question in your blog post... Check it dude and keep in touch here...
@Selerines
"When this mindset will change???" Never forever.
Parents still treat us as children's where they think we aren't mature enough to choose right person, what to do sometimes their thinking becomes true in some cases and so the whole society thinks the same way.
@Rachel : What to do sometimes their thinking becomes true in some cases. Good point yaar....... Ya it will never change... But i am hoping for the best!!!!!
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keep in touch ere'
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I understand the weight of the tradition in India, and I respect it. But in France this kind of event is regarded as retrograde. I believe that the countries evolve at their rhythm. India, and others, must still evolve a little more in the field of the respect for human dignity. I do not want to be insulting Selerines, believe me.
well buddy u do focus on quite a few hot topics... its pretty good. .. well love sure ain't no crime, no sin, or else every person on earth hadn't been seekin it... its just that some people wants to control others life for that they need an issue and love and relationships become an easy target
Love is totally wrong. It's "a" wrong, it's a crime, it's a sin. It's superbad!! :D (Ok, it should have been "is it a" ?)
As our friend Slelerines said somewhere, true love is 0.1% :D (I also remember a maybe.)
Hey, is it alright if you are in love with multiple people though ? Like say a hundred odd people ? :P
Thank you very much for your comment.
Now, I am from Mexico. Here exist diversity of cultures, of beliefs and ways of thinking.
I think that the respect is that one can join the people, to the humanity. I don't practise any religion, but I have complete respect and comprehension to whom do it.
There is nothing bigger that the love, and only the love can join the persons. We all must have the freedom of choosing the one who will remain in our lives, because only we will live it.
Sometimes our parents wish that we take a life as theirs. But as individual beings, with different ideas, we have the right to live of the form that is better to us, always and when we do not involve third persons.
This is what I think, in agreement to my way of life, and how they have educated me.
I have had some problems with my family, because I have taken decisions that don't seem good to them, but ultimately, they only can support and respect me , or if they wish it, to judge me, but they don't have the right to stop myself.
I decide on my life, enjoy it and learn of my mistakes.
Well, it's all. It's so sad the story :(
Sorry for my english, i'm bad.
Love is sex. Sex is lust. Love=lust :-) Start without the love & lust. Anyway, after about 4 months the L&L will catch up with you & your partner. True feelings for each other in the early stages, I believe will make a couple live, relish, & endure life together happily & with joy.
The armyman dude is whacked, man. It does not seem correct to kill another human, let alone one's own daughter.
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How are you?
Thanks for stopping by my blog, Selerines from India. I am glad you like it. I took a look at your blog. I like it! Sure, we will do a link exchange. I linked to your Selerines World blog. Now, it's your turn! (aispecial.blogspot.com) I hope you have a nice day! Do leave a comment on my blog once you are done. I will appreciate it. Thanks!
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@Gwendal : Ya dude your point is correct.. Nothing wrong in that.... I won't mistake you... But in many cases India is really good.
@Rajarshi : Ya nice point dude... I accept your views... Keep in touch here...
@Karthik : Dai champ....... (.1% love) is not the topic here...
@Huevo : Ya i accept your views friend... Keep in touch here...
@A.I Editor : Ya thanks dude..... Your point is really good... I will surely add yours into my blog.. Keep in touch here... Check it under "Blogspot Seleries" list...
@Lee : Sure dude....
Nice blog you have here. Yes, let's exchange links! Thanks!
True love is never wrong, a sin or a crime. I have never understood honor killing. I know that being raised in the US, and female, that my views are very different from the people that these atrocities are happening to, but I just do not, can not, understand killing your own child because they love someone.
Hello, thanks for dropping by my blog. It's nice to see someone posting such a thoughtful blog for debating current issues. I'd love to exchange link with you.[I have your link on my blog now]
By the way, I couldn't imagine any parents who could do such things without remorse. Shooting your own daughter? You deserve to rot in hell for taking someone's life. But then, struck your daughter in the head with an axe? That's totally speechless. These people are monsters and they must be taught a lesson in humanity. Where I come from Malaysia, it's common to have a child disowned by the family when he/she chooses to convert into another religion; such as Muslim. Here, it is a MUST for a Chinese or Indian to convert in order for their marriage with a Muslim spouse to be deemed legitimate.
@Clark : I added yours into my blog under the "Blogspot Seleries" list. Check it out friend.. Keep in touch here...
@Ceru : Ya friend you are right!!!!! Check my blog i added yours into my blog roll under the "Blogspot Seleries" list.. Keep in touch here...
@Share : Your comment is really nice friend... Keep in touch here.... Check "Blogspot Seleries" list, i added yours...
Quite nice to see a blog with some substance to it and it certainly raises good questions--not to mention utter shock and perhaps disappointment in the mentality of society in general...
Thanks for finding me! :)
@Basho : Ya thanks friend.... Keep in touch here...
I believe in Love and I also believe there should be limits to it. Today i see the name of love is being tarnished by infatuation and physical attraction. Once these two things are over, the so called love dies down. But, killing his daughter was a shameful act from the armyman. He will definitely rot in hell as my friend said. Nobody has the right to the decision of life and death of others. We should love and that to unconditionally.
Hi, yes, I would like to link you to my blog, as I think it is a great thing that you are trying to build awareness about the issues you are encountering in your daily life.
I am from the U.S. and I married into another culture, so I can tell you that I have experienced some of the wrath of the families that do not like inter-cultural marriages and so I sympathize with these women. Although, no one ever tried to murder us for it...It is hard for a parent to see their son or daughter not live up to their expectations but it does not excuse them from hate crimes.
Thank-you for linking me and I hope you have a great day!!!
Hello friend and there you doing? What legal, you visit my blog ... It is always receive a visit international hehehe (laughter). His blog is very original. I still have only 2 weeks of existence, and I think he still needs to improve, little by little more that will happen. Of course, I have the pleasure to come to your blog and comment ever. And you do the same combined? Considers Portuguese? I am using a website translation for me communicate with you. How did you find my blog? Abraço!
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@Abdul : Its really too bad as you said... How its possible to do it??? His own daughter.... Love marriage is that much bad one to accept.... What he is going to gain through this? You are correct dude...
@Nika : Its really nice to hear that... I hope that the same thing will happen here.... Thanks for commenting in my blog... Keep in touch here friend..
okey
i've added your blog in my links,
let's be friend =)
@Nad : Ok nad.. Keep in touch... Take care friend..
I wonder that sometime it's not easy at all to live in India...How can someone say or just think that love is wrong: it's just ridicolous!
I won't leave any comment about the man and his daughters...just a world: MADNESS.
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I've placed a link to your blog on 'my Links'. You can link back to me if you wish.
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OH GOSH!!! Love is an amazing concept and should not be questioned!!!!!!!
However, you have inspired a blog entry!!!!
oh mann... ur blog is so packed with people.. hihihi... i guess you looked for friends and they came to you and commented on your blog and now it's gonna be one famous blog.. hahaha oww yea.. where r u in India? what place?
Great post indeed. I know you know what love means to me.Even i know what love is to you.
paradoxical... actually...
@Francesco : Ya dude you are partially correct.... But don't mistake my country fully, because of the mistakes that was made by some people in my country... What to do some people mindset is like this?????
@Nimal : Ya thanks dude.... i will link you in my blog under the "Blogspot Seleries" list.. Check it out and keep in touch here dude...
@Knox : Thanks knox.... Keep in touch here...
@Linkin : Ya dude you are absolutely correct.... I love to make friendship with others, especially people different culture and mindset.. I think nothing wrong in that.... Keep in touch here dude.... I am currently in Tamil Nadu (Chennai)....
@Hari : Hmmmm hmmmm.... Ok yaar...
@Sasha : Ya you are right....
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I went through the incident, its really an barbaric act, killing one's own daughter is ruthless. I don't say Love is either wrong or right, but it is not an criminal offence so as to kill a person.
Olá. Bom, como eu faço pra poder m juntar a vocês, através do blog ? Estou meio confuso, as vezes me confundo e não sei o que fazer. Gostei muito dos comentários...
Muito obrigado a todos...
Até logo!
18/05/2008 • 17:58 horas.
@Joel : Ya you are right... All the best to you for your campus interview!!!!
Hari says :Even i know what love is to you
Whats that supposed to mean ? Shiva, Love failure eh.. ROFL.
@Visu : Machi no personal issues here.... We will talk later about it...
Its not a wrong one da.Its a understanding between two people before marriage.The only thing we have to see is ur lover is a true person r not..........
@Jerome : True person??????????? Hahahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh Shiva, So is there actually anything like that ? Wow, we sure must speak about it in person.. :)
And hey, sorry da machan, to have asked such a question amidst your foreign friends. ;)
Yeah!! i agree to most of the comments up there hahah
@Visu : Hmmmmm hmmmmm...... Lets see!!!!
@Amy : What's your comment dude????
no comments hahah
I don't come from a culture where parents tend to be so strict about who their children are courting. That's not saying that nothing like this has ever happened here, just that I've never heard of it. But, from my experience in my area at least, parents typically let kids date whoever they want.
Probably, the worst thing about this incident, for me, is that I usually think of family as the people who are supposed to support you even if they don't agree, who are supposed to overcome their own anger or disappointment if it will make you happy. I mean, my father is my biggest hero, though we argue all the time; I could never imagine him even yelling at me for dating someone of whom he didn't approve, much less physically hurting me for it.
But anyway, no, I don't think that Love is a crime, or a sin, or wrong in general. I believe that if you love someone, you have to show it. Don't expect Love from anyone else if you're not willing to give it first.
Sure, it can be frustrating, it can even hurt, but Love is the most beautiful thing a person could ever hope to have. I myself am currently experiencing Love issues, but I'm simply happy to even be able to have them. Haha. I really believe that Love is the most vital element to human life.
And that's my two cents.
By the way, yes, I added your link to my blog. =]
@Yamanai : Ya nice point... You are so lucky to get a father like him.... Thanks for adding my blog... Keep in touch here friend...
well, the post brings forward the sad truth. yes, ur blog is full of information. dude, i agree
@Harita : Thanks.... Keep in touch here....
Living with someone outside of marriage is a sin, but in this context a better statement would be: Murder - is it wrong? And yes, it is. Love isn't the problem here, it's just people's stupid choices, but one should not be killed because of their ignorance.
@Dcloud : Living with someone outside of marriage is a sin. Ya its really a nice point. The people should try to understand the feelings of others...
Love is something that works mysteriously.... maybe it is a sin when you step on another level of relationship that is forbidden by your community or religion. But it is still, so called L O V E!
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