Monday, October 13, 2008

** Are you a Virgin?

Are you a virgin?” a friend of mine asked his fiancée one day. The lady looked at him and, without blinking, vowing to herself to be truthful, said that she wasn’t.

“Oh my!” my friend exclaimed. “You mean you have been taking me for a ride all this time. For your information I can’t get married to a lady who is not a virgin!” He looked at her straight in the eye, before plunging the dagger where it hurt most.

“It is over between us,” he said gravely. He took his leave and left her sobbing uncontrollably.

Days later, when I heard what had happened, I shook my head and started counting off my fingers the number of women he (my friend) had “de-virginated” (my word!) i.e. had made lose their virginity. But who was asking about him?
Read HERE what importance some communities have attached to virginity and HERE what I think is the million-dollar question about the same (virginity).

But then, with all the hype about men asking women whether they are virgins, the virginity of men should be an issue too. What do you think?

Check out what my friend Amina says about virginity testing HERE

5 comments:

Nika said...

That is very wrong and one-sided. Has he considered the women who lost their virginities to rape?

Sang Đặng said...

keep in touch, man :D
What a nice template!

Rosilie said...

that is pretty unfair of your friend to ask. Men can always hide their devirginity but women cant. So, discrimination is pretty high then. I dont think it must be the basis of any strong relationship.
Take care always my friend.Have been very busy here.

Priya Joyce said...

if virginity is imp at all it is important for both men and women.

actually its not reely an issue
ah! wat all crimes r happening in today's world and so for me this sounds a small issue.

marriage is the union of hearts not of our physical beings.

niways I appreciate u for putting this up.coz most guys think the opposite.

Anonymous said...

she said the truth and that's great. It must be appreciated. She doesn't deserve a person like your friend. So she should be happy.

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